Romance Scams: Love Is (NOT) In The Air

Thousands of people use online dating sites and social media to find love. While some truly find romance online, many others find a scammer on the other end. 

Look for these warning signs to help catch a scammer from stealing your heart…and your money.

Avoids meeting face-to-face

Scammers will claim they live near you but refuse to meet you in person. While this may not be a red flag to some, they will try to trick you into thinking they are a real person by sending images of someone else or saying they will “try” to find time to meet in person. 

Some may even ask about your personal life to ‘get to know you better.’ Be careful about the details you share; they could use it to better target you and others you know.

Asks you for money

Once you’re engaged in conversation and they have established your trust, scammers will tell you that someone close to them was injured in an accident, or they experienced some type of crisis and need money. They will ask for your account information, password(s), or your social security number to help transfer money to them. They may even go as far as asking for your help to pay medical expenses (for themselves or a family member) and say they will come visit you in person in exchange for your help.

NEVER send money in any form to someone you have not met in person. 

While none of these warning signs are a sure indicator of a romance scam, all of them should be taken seriously. A Cinfed branch manager once saved a member thousands of dollars by providing evidence that convinced them they were the victim of a romance scam. If you think you may be the target of a romance scam, stop communicating with the person immediately and call our Contact Center (513-333-3800) or your nearest branch location.